Charles: An Introduction

Charles & JackWell, I certainly wasn’t expecting to actually be in the group.  It’s been fun the last several months just reading and keeping up with the success of all these other bloggers.  Now I am actually on the team and hope to contribute, not just to the team, but to everyone else on the sidelines or in the stands cheering all of us as we strive for our goals.

Now for an introduction.

My name is Charles Martin, I’m 38 years old, live near Fort Worth, TX, married to a wonderful woman, Amy, own a cat and a dog (Koko and Jack, respectively).  I work as a database analyst and web-developer for a Time Warner Cable.  I also manage several websites and love the Internet and all it does for those who feel alone.

I’ve been posting about my successes and stumbles for the last 18 months on my personal blog, www.webcudgel.com.  I’ve made some headway, but I really need to push myself harder.  I think that this will contribute to my motivation (it’s one thing to be doing this with my wife and family and a few friends, it’s another to be doing this in front of all of you).

And now about my journey.

For starters, I had never really been one to watch what I eat and just continued to balloon over the years.  My wife had been in Weight-Watchers for a few years, but lacking the success she had hoped to have, we had a serious discussion and I asked her, “what do you want me to do?”  That fateful question was followed by the equally important answer, “go to the meetings with me”.  I had been tolerant of the change in our diet at home, but I still picked up stuff at the grocery store that would “wreck” her plans to stay on track.

So, because I love her and would do anything to make her happier (and, thus, keep me happy too), I agreed.  It was originally for her that I went to my first meeting.  However, I realized later that, deep down, it was for me.  I had recently passed the 300 lb barrier and I was having some internal concerns, but not actually doing anything about it.  We went together and have been going ever since (in fact, I sometimes have to push her to attend when she doesn’t feel like it and I have even attended by myself when she was sick).

That was 18 months ago when I was at 319 pounds (the photo shown was taken just a few months before I started WeightWatchers).  At week 35, I lost my first 10% (32 pounds).  I’ve been as low as 34 pounds (just a few weeks ago and the 42 pound loss must have been a fluke with the scale that week).  However, since the 10% loss, I’ve fluctuated back and forth.  We switched from Flex plan to the Core plan about 4 months ago and saw some improvements, but we’ve been slacking on our commitment to keep to the core plan. 

This is where I’m at right now and now you get to come along for the ride as I continue down the road to a healthier me. 

3 Responses to this post.

  1. Rick's Gravatar

    Posted by Rick on 21.12.07 at 9:51 am

    Welcome aboard, Charles! Congratulations on your success so far, and it’s our hope to see you continue along that path. It can get tough somewhere midway through, and that’s where I think FatBloggers really shines. A lot of guys around here to encourage you and to serve as an inspiration. I look forward to reading more of your posts in the future.

  2. rev. todd's Gravatar

    Posted by rev. todd on 21.12.07 at 9:51 am

    Good Luck man… I bet this site will help you. Just keeping up with it has helped me, until recently when I have been slacking off :(. I look forward to following your journey!

  3. Coop's Gravatar

    Posted by Coop on 21.12.07 at 9:51 am

    Hi Charles,
    I commend you on getting serious about this at your age. I see more and more young clients these days with weight problems. Sadly the weight starts a downward spiral of health issues like high blood pressure and more.
    Keep at it. There will be bad meals, or even bad days…but if you eat well 90% of the time, and get in consistent and smart exercise, your body will respond.
    If I can be of any help, let me know,
    Coop

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