Onslaught - A Dove Film

As you know from my impassioned defense of Britney Spears’ waistline a few weeks ago, I am a father who is deeply concerned about my girls and the relationship they well eventually have with their bodies. My lovely wife and I have both struggled for years with our weight and we are making every effort to overcome that struggle so we can be positive role models.

On the other end of that spectrum is societal pressure for young girls to be thin and to dress and act too sexy at way too young an age. My girls are not quite 2 years old, so hopefully I have some time before these become issues we have to face.

Regardless, this new ad from Dove really hit home.

As someone who works in the ad industry it would be very easy to take a cynical look at this ad… but as a father I applaud Dove for what they are trying to do. Especially if it helps start a dialog about unhealthy stereotypes.

The Real Beauty Campaign in general has taken a pretty honest approach at dealing with womens bodies. And it has done it in a non-glorified, non-self congratulatory way that I admire. It’s like the United Colors of Benetton ads for female body image. I don’t know if these ads are breaking through into the collective conscious, but it is a good start.

I am glad to see they are extending this campaign to reach out to parents . I really like the tag line: “Talk to your daughter before the beauty industry does.” I encourage all you parents to take a few seconds to head over to The Campaign For Real Beauty site and check out some of the materials they have there for talking to your daughters about body image.

And Dad’s don’t shy away from this subject. This is not “woman’s work”. Your daughters look up to you and value your opinions. You can add a very valuable perspective to this dialog. Man up and do it.

Tony
10/2: 231.4 lbs.
Goal: 220 lbs.
11.4 lbs. to go

p.s. I am fully aware that I am getting sucked into perpetuating a viral marketing campaign…just like Dove wants. But again, if it starts a positive dialog, I could care less about being someones shill.

3 Responses to this post.

  1. Rick's Gravatar

    Posted by Rick on 02.10.07 at 1:35 pm

    Well said, Tony. Thanks for being an advocate for these young girls against the body image industry.

  2. The Pound Slayer's Gravatar

    Posted by The Pound Slayer on 02.10.07 at 1:35 pm

    I love the Dove Real Beauty campaign. I used in last semester in a marketing class I taught and all the students responded to it… male and female. The next generation coming up behind us seems VERY keen to have some dialogue about beauty myths. (HURRAY!!!)

  3. Tim's Gravatar

    Posted by Tim on 02.10.07 at 1:35 pm

    I like the campaign also. As the father of 2 girls, 5 and 8 years old, I struggle with the balance between motivating them to eat healthy and exercise for wellness purposes versus appearance. Convincing them to skip seconds on dessert because it isn’t healthy means nothing to them; convincing them to skip it so they don’t “get fat like daddy” has an immediate impact. Alternative suggestions?

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